Bullying: A quality of life issue

caines | 1/17/2013, 4:30 a.m.

Concerns aboutbullyingand its role in school violence, depression, and health have grown in the past decade. Bullying is different from the routine conflicts of childhood. It is intentional behavior meant to hurt and dominate another person. Internationally, the prevalence ofbullyingin elementary schools range from approximately 11 percent in Finland to 50 percent in Ireland. In the U.S., 19 percent of children are bullied.Though bullyingbehaviors decline as a student progresses through school, the numerous physical, mental, and social detriments can last well into adulthood. Bullying also impacts academic achievement, school bonding and absenteeism. National media headlines during the last year indicate a need for a proactive approach to combat an issue that affects everyones quality of life.

What is bullying?

Bullying is characterized by an imbalance of power between the child who bullies and the target (another child). It can be physical, verbal, emotional or sexual. Bullying also includes harassment via email and instant messaging. Research shows that bullying generally begins in elementary school, peaks in grades six through eight, and persists into high school. Here are some startling statistics: one out of four kids are bullied; one out of five kids admit to being a bully of doing some bullying; one out of three children and youth in grades six through 10 have been bullied; one out of four teachers see nothing wrong with bulling or putdowns; the prevalence of having been bullied on school property was higher among females than males; and among students homicide perpetrators were more than twice as likely as homicide victims to have been bullied.

Effects of bullying on victims

Several studies report that children who bully are more likely than their peers to get into frequent fights, vandalize/steal property; drink alcohol and/or smoke; be truant and/or drop out from school; and carry a weapon. Research also shows that for kids who identify as being gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender the presence of a youth-led gay-straight alliance; inclusive curriculum materials; and the presence of supportive adults makes a significant and positive difference in the life of these kids. Cyber bullying inflicts emotional harm in a stealth manner via websites, chat rooms, email, cell phones and instant messaging. A National Institute of Health study that analyzed 6th through eighth graders indicated cyber bullying has more of a psychological impact on children and adolescents because they may not know who is harassing them online. The cloak of anonymity causes victims to feel dehumanized or helpless at the time of the attack. Specifically, some adolescents who are regular victims of cyber bulling may experience emotional distress and suicidal thoughts. Furthermore, cyber bullies are more likely to be older adolescents rather than their younger counterparts.

Recommendations for schools

The most effective methods to reduce bullying involve a whole school approach. This includes assessing the problem, planning school conference days, providing better supervision at recess, forming abullyingprevention coordinating group, encouraging parent-teacher meetings, establishing classroom rules against bullying, holding classroom meetings aboutbullying, requiring talks with the bullies and victims, and scheduling talks with the parents of involved students.